|I’ve seen a few episodes of “Everybody Loves Raymond” and I find it to be one of the most depressing things ever. Why are these people married when all evidence shows that they deeply hate each other? All she ever does is control and attack him, and all he ever does is whine and try to escape. She makes bizarre demands, and he disappoints her, over and over and over. She thinks it’s important to do things like vacuum curtains, and he doesn’t, and so she yells at him for not being helpful enough. This is supposed to be amusing? Is it anything but grim and abusive?